When "Not Yet" Becomes "Right Now"
When "Not Yet" Becomes "Right Now"
A Mental Health Podcast About the Moments That Spark Change Jen is a childhood abuse survivor living with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder. Throughout her life she has learned many skills to cope with hersymptoms and developed a therapeutic doll, My Moody Monster, to help children better cope with their frustrations. Jen's YouTube channel features "Moody Talks" - each month she features an emotion and discuss how we experience that feeling along with coping skills using DBT. After being featured on multiple mental health and parenting podcasts, she had a powerful realization: her story of pushing away the hard work of facing my trauma was just one journey, and there are countless other journeys out there—each just as important and impactful. This is what inspired her to create "When Not Yet Becomes Right Now", a space for exploring the many different paths we take in life.
Feb. 4, 2026

Heal the Past, Love Differently with Tori Jenae

Heal the Past, Love Differently with Tori Jenae
When "Not Yet" Becomes "Right Now"
Heal the Past, Love Differently with Tori Jenae

Send us a text In this episode, Tori Jenae, a trauma-informed relationship and confidence coach, shares her powerful journey from a traumatic childhood to becoming a successful coach. She discusses the impact of generational trauma, the importance of understanding love maps in relationships, and how her experiences have shaped her approach to healing. Tori emphasizes the need for self-care, vulnerability and the transformative power of turning pain into purpose. She also explores the integrat...

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In this episode, Tori Jenae, a trauma-informed relationship and confidence coach, shares her powerful journey from a traumatic childhood to becoming a successful coach. She discusses the impact of generational trauma, the importance of understanding love maps in relationships, and how her experiences have shaped her approach to healing. Tori emphasizes the need for self-care, vulnerability and the transformative power of turning pain into purpose. She also explores the integration of energy healing into her practice and the significance of empowering clients to reclaim their lives.

Key Takeaways:

  • Tori Jenae's journey is rooted in overcoming trauma and adversity.
  • Understanding love maps helps to recognize relationship patterns.
  • Generational trauma can affect multiple generations and needs to be addressed.
  • Healing requires self-awareness and the ability to receive care.
  • The importance of vulnerability and self-care in personal growth.
  • Energy healing complements traditional psychological practices.
  • Empowerment comes from recognizing one's own strength and resilience.

Episode Highlights:

[02:07] Tori's Origin Story and Early Life

[03:30] Transforming Pain into Purpose

[06:34] Understanding Love Maps and Relationships

[09:57] Generational Trauma Explained

[18:59] Healing and Self-Care in Relationships

[31:38] Tori's Signature Method and Client Work

Resources Mentioned:

Tori’s Website https://www.torijenae.com/

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