In this episode, Jen engages in a profound conversation with Vanessa, a betrayal recovery specialist. They explore the pivotal moments of transformation in life, focusing on the impact of micro betrayals and generational trauma. Vanessa shares her personal journey through betrayal, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, emotional validation, and the steps necessary for healing. The discussion highlights the significance of finding the right support and embracing confidence and self-love as essential components of recovery.
Key Takeaways:
*Transformation occurs in pivotal moments of our lives.
*Micro betrayals can accumulate and impact our trust.
*Generational trauma influences our emotional responses.
*Self-discovery is crucial for healing after betrayal.
*Emotional validation is essential for personal growth.
*Practical steps can aid in navigating betrayal recovery.
*Finding the right support is key to healing.
*Forgiveness of oneself is a significant part of recovery.
*Confidence and self-love are vital for moving forward.
*Living life by your own design leads to fulfillment.
Episode Highlights:
[00:00] Introduction
[03:26] Generational Trauma and Personal Journey
[11:58] Understanding Micro Betrayals
[17:54] The Catalyst of Betrayal
[24:48] Healing and Self-Discovery
[31:16] Navigating Betrayal: Practical Steps
[37:52] Embracing Confidence and Authenticity
[44:53] Finding Support and Resources
[49:25] Understanding Micro-Betrayals and Their Impact
[49:57] Healing from Major Betrayals: Steps to Recovery
Resources Mentioned:
Vanessa’s Website: http://www.UnderstandingEar.com/
Vanessa’s Book: Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partners' Betrayal: What to Do When Your World Falls Apart https://amzn.to/4a20Oww
Connect with Vanessa:
https://www.instagram.com/vanessa_understandingear/
https://www.facebook.com/UnderstandingEar/
https://www.youtube.com/@Vanessa-Cardenas
https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-cardenas-understanding-ear-b4011a311/
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